
By Michael Cruz
Something strange has happened in the business world. I keep hearing “it’s not fair” as a mantra for excuses. By now, we should realize that life is not fair. So, why keep whining about it not being so?
What does ‘fair’ mean? Synonyms are:Â just, equitable, impartial, unbiased. What part of your business world has ever been fair?
Let’s blame our parents. When my kids were young the learned “dada” and “mama” first. The third thing they learned to say is, “It’s not fair!” Most parents attempt to logically justify fairness.
This is especially true when justifying why one sibling gets something, or gets to do something that another sibling is not getting. Yet, trying to explain that it is ‘fair’ harms the child. It sets in motion that idea that life should be fair. I went in a different direction. I told our kids that they were right when they said it was not fair. I would say, “You are right. It is not fair. Get used to it, because life is not fair.” Harsh as it may be, they all learned that life indeed is not fair.